Category: Practical Life

Implementing a Chore List

It only took me 2 years, but I finally implemented a chore list this last month and so far it’s going fairly well.

Here’s what our chore list looks like.  It’s along our hallway with one of those protective sleeve covers so we can re-wipe weekly.  The chore list word doc is here.



How I Arrived at My Chore List

The second hardest part for me was coming up with this chore list.  I’ve been asking around various FB group for ideas and collecting info for awhile.  What finally pushed me over was joining the free Chore Chart Challenge on Simplified Organization website, run by the same woman who does the Scholé Sister podcasts.

Apparently what I was missing was sitting down and doing a big huge brain dump, no filtering, on paper.  The on paper part is very very important because what kept happening is I have a list of chores in my head and then I always started by trying to organize them.  It was much simpler to organize and cross things once I had the list on paper.


Practical Life: 彩虹編織器 Rainbow Loom

Ages: 6.75 & 9.75

During our summer vacation, Thumper got a hold of a free Rainbow Loom and she became obsessed.  It’s now infected Astroboy as well.  Both spend all their free time on it.

I was very surprised to learn that while I was gone running errands, she asked my mom for her iPad and searched on Youtube herself for instructional videos on what you can make with the Rainbow Loom.  (Just google “rainbow loom project-name” and you’ll see a bunch of YouTube videos). She started with bracelets and has gone on to ornamental items.

She’s really growing up and becoming independent.

Of course Astroboy wanted to do it as well but Thumper was hogging it all up.   I finally caved and bought a set for him.   I didn’t know until after Thumper broke hers (just a week of use no less!) that there are actually tons of imitators out there and you want the real thing which has a metal hook instead of cheap plastic ones.


Practical Life: DIY Salted Eggs 自製鹹蛋

I’ve been wanting to make my own salted eggs, which is a classic Chinese dish, ever since I read about it from a homeschooler’s FB page.  Partly because I felt like I was failing on the teaching Chinese culture front.   What if my kids never learn how delicious salted eggs(鹹蛋)and hundred year old eggs (皮蛋) are?

Thank goodness for my mom.  She brought some over when she came to help me move; and talked up just how delicious they are.  Thumper had a taste and was sold.

That prompted me to research recipes after my mom left.  It turns out that it is super duper easy to make!  However, there are many recipes floating around.  As usual, I researched the heck out of it and made my own recipe by combining tons of other ones.  Which guarantees that it’ll fail the first time.

You learn from failures, I say.  Perfect for homeschooling.

Supposedly the perfect salted egg is one whose egg yoke is “顏色紅而油多”, reddish and oily.  I will likely perfect this version a bit more.  I really like this recipe from Bean Panda even though I didn’t follow it. (more…)

Back to Practical Life: Making scones


As the semester progressed last Fall, I started feeling more and more unhappy because Astroboy was fighting the work period.  I would too if my teacher asked me to do the same thing every day.  For me, I had wanted to read to him daily and do Sagebooks.    But it is no fun when it’s a must-do rather than a choice.

I was also reminded of how important it is to do practical life with the children watching Waldorf Mama work with her children.  In Montessori, Practical Life is the foundation for all primary work because it cultivates concentration and trains the hands.  While I knew that, I again was not following the philosophy because I felt anxious about the Chinese and not meeting his needs in math.

Sometimes I know that whatever it is I’m doing isn’t what I want to do, but I don’t seem to be able to stop myself from the momentum I gathered.  But as always, a pause in homeschooling during the holidays provided an opportunity for me to reset myself.

For the new year, my New Year Resolution is to 1) not be on the computer during the work period and 2) do more practical life with Astroboy to help him with his fine motor skills.   It is hard not being on the computer because sometimes I run off to print a worksheet or look up some information and that turns into a 3 hour trip on the Internet.  However, cooking is a sure way for me to not look at the computer.

Today, Astroboy and I made scones.   My good friend Glass Mama also Montessori homeschools and once I watched her having her 5-year old child show us how to make Dutch pancakes.  Watching him opening ovens and putting in a hot cast iron pot, scampering up their counter to take down a super large plate, and bringing said plate to the table in an off-handed manner nearly gave me a heart attack.  But he didn’t break any plates nor burn himself.


Making Hot Chocolate

Pouring milk
Pouring milk

The last few weeks, Astroboy has been getting up earlier than me and roaming around the house with nothing to do.  Sometimes he’s really good and puts on a jacket and feeds the cats (it’s his morning chore), before I get up and nag him to do it.  (Yes I know.  I’m trying really hard not to!)

But I finally got tired of it and decided it is time for him to learn to make his hot chocolate.  Especially after my last post where I reminded myself that I need to remember to break down steps and take it one step at a time.   He drinks it every morning now because our house is like 60 degrees when we get up in the morning.


Half Hearted Practical life for the lazy mom

Before Astroboy was born, I used to get very frustrated at the fact that Practical Life with Thumper was not what I’d read in books. (I had a lot of misguided ideas.)  Weren’t kids supposed to be mopping the table at 2 or 3?  (Note the word “supposed”.)  By the time Astroboy arrived, I’d figured out a few things.   Given that I’m kind of messy and a bit lazy by nature, we did not really have a proper environment set up for the kids to consistently do it.

If you read Montessori from the Start, the author Lillard talks about creating a child-friendly, child-sized environment for your baby.  Floor on the bed, hanging mobile, only a few toys in baskets on the floor, a place for the children to get their own clothing that is limited to about 2-3 choices, their own low table and small chair to eat.  I was so sleep deprived, I just never got around to it except the floor on the bed.    We had an Ikea child-sized table.  But Astroboy seldom ate there because his sister was old enough to sit at the table with us.

I ended up doing what I like to call “half-ass hearted” practical life.  I let go of the other things I’m supposed to have.  We started with a utensil area in the kitchen for the children and eventually added a water area for the children,  a small mirror above the sink, and most recently snack serving stations.  Whenever I got around to it, which was usually a year later than I started wanting it, I set them up.  E

These are things any family can add to their kitchen setup.  They don’t have to attempt more than that, but the other things kind of naturally follow.  Even if you don’t follow Montessori philosophy, having these stations setup will probably makes your life so much easier in the long run.

Practical Life?

Practical Life in Montessori is just things that are daily life skills.  She talked in her book about how appreciative one school child was to be finally shown how to blow his own nose so he doesn’t have to have someone else do it.  It’s setting up an environment, and showing the children how to care for themselves.

You can do Practical Life in a half ass hearted way by just following the rule of put things the children use at their level.  Practical Life is not there really to make my life easier, even though that is why I’m drawn to it.  In our album, the aim of Practical Life is order, concentration, coordination, and independence.  It isn’t necessarily: “learn how to fold laundry”, or “learn how to set the table”. It’s there to empower the children and answer their cry of “Me do it!”   To help with these 4 aims, I try (though fail often) to add two more things to the “presentation”.  One is how to get the material out, and the other is to how to return them.   For example, to teach the children to do laundry, the important part isn’t to show them how to push the buttons.  It’s the 3 step process of showing them how to put the laundry in the washer, how to start the load, and how to get that laundry out.  Following a sequence of actions is a great preparation for kindergarten.

Our Practical Life environment

Small serving area

The serving area in our kitchen has some breakable plates, non-breakable Korean type bowls, some small pitchers and bowls, and utensils.  When Astroboy was young, the nanny was the one who had to shoo him away when he was in the “likes to drop things” phase.  His personality meant that he would watch you if you gave him a proper demonstration of how to carry things, so that phase did not last too long.  I find that kids may hold breakable items in a way that gives you a heart attack and say, “Noooooooooo!  Be careful!”  But more often than not they will not break them.  It does require an eagle eye and supervision for maybe 1-2 years, when they’re acquiring their motor skills as a young toddler.    And trust.

Do things break?  Yes.  So many glass cups have broken in our house.  That’s why we just buy the Ikea ones.  Using metal bowls or plastic bowls definitely makes life much easier.  But after the umpteenth times, it doesn’t phase me anymore, or get me mad.  I have come to accept that children will break things or spill things, or drop food on the floor.  The adults will sweep up the glass when they break.  But I will point them to the mop or the broom when they spill food or water and say, “沒關係,擦一擦就好了.  It’s okay, let’s mop it up.”  .  My anger comes partly because the children has now made a mess that I have to clean up.  When the responsibility is shifted to the person who made the mess, I feel so much better.